MOOD CHANGED VERY QUICKLY

On an afternoon in a subway in the city of Beijing, the atmosphere quiet enough. Subway was pretty crowded by people who just came home from work. Suddenly, the sound of silence was disturbed by the act of two small boys aged about 3 and 5 years of running to and fro. They both began to disturb other passengers. Small began pulling at the newspaper being read by a passenger, sometimes grab a pen or a book the other passengers. The older brother accidentally ran and hit a passenger who was standing a few feet dangling because the carriage was full. Some passengers began to fail by the second act of that naughty boy, and some people began to scold the father of two children. "Sir, please dong son guarded!" Pleaded one of his passengers. Father of two children had to call and reassure her. Finally back atmosphere of silence, and the children sat silently. But not long after, they began to behave as before, even more naughty.

If so diusilin still silent, the children increasingly bold. There's even a newspaper being read, just withdrawn and taken away. If the-owner of the newspaper did not react, the newspaper began torn and trampled. passengers began to scold the father again with tone was getting mad. They really annoyed, let alone fit with the atmosphere of home from work, they are still very tired. The father called back two children, and began to quiet again. But that did not last long. The child began to throw tantrums that increasingly make the passengers in the underground car was getting angry. Some passengers began to scold the father and yell. "You can not educate children," said a passenger with a fury. "From his son was annoying everyone here, but the father remained silent." The father rose from his seat, approached her two children are still small, calm him down, and very politely he stood up and said to the passengers in the car with a heavy sigh. "Fathers and mothers of all, sorry for my two children this behavior. Not usually both of them behave like naughty today. This morning, my two children have recently been abandoned by their mother they loved so much. My son's second mother died of leukemia he suffered. " The man paused, and stroked his head while his two sons continue the story.

"Maybe because of what happened to their mother both had been so suddenly, making my second child was not able to accept reality and a little bit shocked by it. Once again I apologize. " All the people in the subway carriage was instantly silent ..., they suddenly changed completely, from looking at the naughty feeling upset, turned into feelings of pity and affection.

The two children are still naughty, annoying all passengers are met. However, people who even bothered to show her affection seemed added. Someone gave him chocolate, some even accompanied him to play. Let us consider the condition of the subway. Passengers STILL THE SAME. SECOND CHILD IS STILL naughty. But there is a change that is very striking. MOOD IS CHANGING IN THE SUBWAY 180 DEGREES. WHY? .... Because of an information, This is called "CHANGE PARADIGM."

Apparently, the boundary between AGREE and REFUSE it was very thin at all. And it will never be penetrated, except by a proper INFORMATION.

Dear brothers and sisters ...

From the above story we can learn many things, one of which is that we can change perspective or way of thinking immediately, simply by an appropriate information. In the practice of everyday life when we want to be angry, disappointed, or do things that are less admirable to others, immediately enter the information positively to that person, so we immediately stop the explosion of our emotions do not happen to them and misunderstanding as well as the undesirable. Hopefully with this story, we all can become a better person than yesterday and the life that is pleasing before Him.

God Bless.